PARASOCIALIZE

A mechanism or tactic · 1995 · Retail

The loyalty counter

Points, tiers, an anniversary date, a number that has been going up for years, and the quiet threat of what happens to it if you leave. The most ordinary parasocial object ever invented.

ManipulationApplicationhistory
A title plate for The loyalty counter: the name, the year and a mark drawn from the entry. It is not a photograph.
The loyalty counter in its neighbourhood HERE The supermarket club - A mechanism or tactic982The supermarketThe subscription tier - A mechanism or tactic015The subscriptio
points at this this points at colour is what kind of thing it is

It converts a relationship into an account, and an account is something with a balance. Nobody feels moved by a balance. The remarkable thing is how much feeling the machinery of a balance can carry once you have also attached to a person - the anniversary counter is not a relationship, it is a receipt for one.

Manipulation. One-sided attachment engineered for somebody else's benefit. Paid intimacy, parasocial persuasion, sasaeng, grief extraction, the streak. The lane that pays the bills and the lane that causes the most harm, frequently at the same time.

Application. One-sided attachment put to work on purpose. Creator economies, community, fandom as infrastructure, and the things that genuinely help people. Not automatically good - a tool with an obvious use is a tool that will also get a bad one.

Where it sits

1950 1950-1999 · 1995 1999

Provenance · 2 source record(s)

INSTITUTION The brand

Connected · 2 out, 1 in

The supermarket clubcites · 1982 · A mechanism or tacticThe subscription tiercites · 2015 · A mechanism or tacticThe subscription tierdepicts · 2015 · A mechanism or tactic

Reported as a story

It sits in

BRANDin the BRAND timeline

The full timeline → · The database → · The atlas →