We all have one. You know their dog's name, their coffee order, and absolutely nothing about them
A widely-shared explainer on why every single person has a parasocial relationship and why most of them are fine.
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Meg Mason on Nancy Mitford, a lonely teenager, and the strangest thing to happen to this entire field this year.
I want to note this without making it about me, which is difficult, so I will make it about the fact that a bestselling novelist went on record saying a book family saved her life and then got asked about it by The Guardian and answered properly. For thirty years this field has argued about whether these relationships count. It turns out one of them was load-bearing for a person who then wrote a novel about it. Company Dreamer is on the shelf of this site for the same reason. The evidence is the writing.
Notice, name, choose. That's the whole method.
The clerk's shelf - how this got here first

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Company Dreamer ↗The #1 dreamer in the world has her life rearranged to keep her end-dream in the black.Sources
The Guardian · 23 AUG 2026
ABC News (Australia), via MSN · 23 AUG 2026
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