PARASOCIALIZE

The confessional

A writer on the parasocial relationship with her favourite Instagram dominatrix

This is the best thing in the queue and I am not being nice. It is funny and it is genuinely brave.

FILED 23 SEP 2026 · 27d ago ·Due back 23 OCT 2026 ·BY PEDESTRIAN.TV

Every other piece this week is about a person who is dead or a regulation that is coming. This one is about a woman who posts on the internet and somehow that became the centre of somebody's week, and instead of writing it up as a symptom she wrote it up as a story. That is the move. Nobody else in this queue managed it.

Notice, name, choose. That's the whole method.

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Parasocialize

PODCAST

Parasocialize ↗The podcast where the lens points back.

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How parasocial relationships affected me and my favourite Instagram dominatrix ↗

PEDESTRIAN.TV · 23 SEP 2026

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