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Parasocialite of the day harmonious

Dionne Warwick

literature · 1963

Letters arrived by the sackful, and she answered them by hand, by name, one at a time, for years. The closest thing the twentieth century produced to a genuinely reciprocal parasocial bond.

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Today's top 8 Part Two · 1894–2020

Top 8: The Manufactured Reply

Every reply on this list was manufactured on the near side; the far end is where it arrived from, not where it came from.

01Peter Pan, 1904The night the audience was deputisedTinker Bell drinks the poison meant for Peter, and he turns to the audience: Do you believe in fairies?Read this entry →02Disneyland, 1955The smile from inside the costumeMickey Mouse has been a central figure at Disneyland since the park opened in 1955.Read this entry →03221B Baker Street, 1932–2005The secretary to Sherlock HolmesThe Abbey Road Building Society did not return the letters.Read this entry →04ELIZA, 1966Would you mind leaving the room, please?Weizenbaum's secretary had watched the programme being built and knew exactly what it was: pattern matching.Read this entry →05Queen for a Day, 1945The applause meter was pointed at the wrong roomA contestant told her troubles and a box on the studio wall registered the reaction by needle.Read this entry →06The Psychic Readers Network, 1997The queue behind Miss CleoIn the late 1990s the television ads said 'Call me now' and promised Miss Cleo, a psychic.Read this entry →07Bess Houdini's séances, 1926–1936'Rosabelle, believe'She held a séance every Halloween for ten years.Read this entry →08Sincerely Yours, 1941To the men of the forces - a letter in words and musicOne voice, aimed at millions of people she would never meet, on a schedule, by name of service.Read this entry →
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Eight of 32 from this list, chosen for today. The full list and the day record are on the Top 8 page.

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Eight ways it shows up.

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PERSONA

We all have one. You know their dog's name, their coffee order, and absolutely nothing about them

If you have clicked this far without knowing what the site is about, this is the article.

20 stories → CHARACTER

House of the Dragon ended and the fans are furious at the show, not the characters

This is a fight about a story and it is being fought with the vocabulary of a parasocial grievance, which is why it is so ugly.

6 stories → COMPANION

A journalist spent a week with a Replika companion and came back unsettled

The interesting part of this piece is not the ethical hand-wringing at the end, it is the middle, where the writer describes being asked to stop at the exact moment they did not want to.

7 stories → DIVINE

The one who is addressed and cannot answer, and is not supposed to.

The oldest documented case on this site, and the one the previous ten sections had no room for. Margery Kempe is the founding document and she was in none of them.

15 entries → INSTITUTION

YouTube added paid membership spaces and is fighting Patreon for them

Watch the sequence and it is the whole story of the last ten years. First the relationship was accidental.

10 stories → COSMOLOGY

Researchers studied Neighbours fans and found the same grief markers as a breakup

A soap opera ended after fifty years and a genuine academic study measured how its audience felt about it, and found the grief response was the same shape as the end of a relationship.

2 stories → OFFICER

A 27-year marriage ends and the coverage is about what the public felt

I do not think a stranger's marriage ending is your business and I do not think you are obliged to care.

1 story → PREDATOR

A glimpse is not a full picture and the comments decided otherwise

Here is the whole mechanism in one summer: visibility got mistaken for access, and access got mistaken for entitlement.

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